Ex dating someone
I told him I was pregnant and he tried convincing me to get an abortion. After all, you are going to be the mother of his child and he will see that and want to do the right thing and fall in love with this child. The truth is that abusers don't change without serious long term help and a true desire to do so. He shattered my entire world, and he doesn't care for me anymore. You have a chance to start fresh and clean,but you are clinging to this guy. You will continue to cling to that guy, hoping against hope that he will return and this other monster who replaced him will go away. Then you can all be the happy family you dream about and just know will happen if you wait it out and persevere.Question: Someone I was with for over a year broke up with me because they could not handle the “stress” and said that they were too worried all the time.They said they wanted to stay friends multiple times and two times we talked about serious matters (never about us or anything like that) and they requested to talk on the phone and was not quick to hang up.Note: I’m not saying what you did was right or wrong.You did what you felt was right for you at the time! I found out a month after I broke it off that I was pregnant. I would be laying in his bed waiting for him to get back from the strip club, even though it killed me. I know he's a bad person, but I've always loved him. There's not a doubt in my mind that I'm not keeping this baby... It hurts that he doesn't even care that I'm pregnant, because at one point he wanted this. It's always your choice, but I want to put a few things out there. The guy you knew before he turned mean and abusive. You are also likely thinking he will return to his senses after awhile, especially once you have the baby- dump this new woman (whom he is probably being like he was to you at first) and plead forgiveness, say he was just stupid and scared and made a huge mistake. Going out to strip clubs, getting drunk at bars every night. So I officially ended it with him even though it killed me. I would literally cater to him - make him breakfast, pack his lunch, make him dinner, wash and fold his laundry. My ex is with someone else and has been dating her for over a month now.
” Eventually, after you’ve regained at least some of your dignity, you enter the classic “I’ll show them! This is when your brain tries to trick your heart into thinking that you’ve moved on, and you suddenly have tons of energy for things you’ve never cared about before, like alphabetizing your bookshelves and figuring out what the best food podcasts are, even though you never cook and literally don’t own a single pan.
But an hour later, walking into the specified bar in the West Village, I immediately understood why people take the time to screen each other via text.
Tinder guy turned out to be two of my worst fears combined: a short actor.
At the end they asked if we could still be friends and I stated “You left me when I needed someone the most.
Not even a friend does that.” And we have not talked since and quickly after my ex started dating someone else but I have been told it is not the same between them as it was between he and I. Also why did he want to talk to me if he had made up his mind to move on? Yangki’s Answer: There is obviously a lot of history to this, but to answer to what you’re curious about. No one really knows what any one’s feelings are unless the person feeling them says what they are.